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Why today’s generation is lazy?

Hi there.  Are you also one among the titled? Welcome to the read. So I have a pretty good poem in order to answer this question. Let’s get to it. I have big dreams and aspirations, But oh that couch calls for me. Even if I have hundreds of tasks to do, I wouldn’t mind taking a five hours sleep. You call me lazy but look at me, I have all the ideas to be successful. But with my parent’s hard earned money, Is that what I really need? I want to do things, I want to build myself, I want to make my own name, But come on, let’s start from tomorrow. Scrolling through internet all day, Now that made me feel guilty. I’ll take action from tomorrow, Because staying delulu is the new reality. You sure I won’t be able to do anything if I don’t take the action? Oh don’t put that on my face, Because then I have another worried reaction. Making parents proud is a feeling I want to know, But then I’ll have to give up on my sleep so…. I think let’s start from tomorrow. Being one of your fellow mate...

10 reasons why you are being dominated.

I know there are actual people who could be controlling and dominating but the reasons why it might be happening with you are pretty simple. Let’s get right into them. 1. You are too giving and let things go off easily to avoid a face off. 2. You think you are dependent on that person and hence you need to survive with this kind of behaviour. 3. You lack setting your boundaries. 4. You can’t say No when needed. 5. You feel you might hurt the other person with being direct and that person might leave you. 6. You overthink your own faults and fall a prey to the other person’s manipulations. 7. You fear being lonely and are not comfortable in your own company. 8. You fear rejection. 9. You have unresolved past traumas that needs healing. 10. And the very obvious, you are a people pleaser and hence you stay away from putting your opinion across. Let me tell you all the above points are harmful for one’s own mental health and please take help from your loved ones whenever needed. Don’t let ...

How to decline a relationship proposal in school?

The simplest answer to this question is being direct.  Whether you are a girl or a boy, if you are not ready for a relationship, be honest and tell the person that you are not really looking for any relationship as of now. You want to stay focused on your career first and you have family responsibilities that you are committed to.  As coming in a relationship will in a way take my focus away from my future commitments, I would not want to get into something like this.  Hope it helped. Comment below if you have any questions. 

Does school grades matter?

Without any delay, let me be honest with the right answer which is ‘NO’. Your school grades don’t matter at all. With that been said, I would like to add one more harsh truth that ‘Child, you better pass in every class at one go’. Since schools are primarily meant to guide a student to choose his/her career path, you must focus solely on skill building. You might not be good at Math but may be good at other things like singing, acting, content creation, dancing, writing, teaching and what not.  So the list is endless. And you can become just any of that. Then the question is why must one study? Basic education is a must for anyone which comprises of communication skills, thriving in adverse conditions, dealing with a heartbreak, paying respect and attention to details, body gestures, good convincing skills, staying kind and humble, sharing mentality, speaking and listening skills, confidence boost, networking etc. All these things can be learned and developed at home but will requi...